无声胜有声的表白方式你get了吗？没准赶在情人节前就脱单了

一定要说出“我喜欢你”或者“我爱你”，才能让对方知道你的心意吗？

对有些人来说，那简简单单的3个单词，8个字母，要说出口难于登天；又或者是，你们的感情还没有发展到说爱你的地步，那么，这个时候应该怎么表达你的感情呢？

要记住，表白的重点其实不在于你说什么，而在于你做什么——It's not what you say, but how you show it that counts.

1. Nothing says "I love you" more than laughing at your partner's bad jokes, especially if you've heard them a hundred times before. Making your loved one laugh is also a wonderful way of displaying your feelings.

对象讲了一个老掉牙的烂笑话，你也要给力的笑，这也是一种无声说爱你的方式，逗你喜欢的人笑，可是一种绝妙的表达感情的方式哟。

2. Find that special little something that your partner lost or said he or she wanted but could never find. Also, giving your partner a nicely framed photograph of the two of you is a very touching gesture.

一些ta遗失的或是求而不得的特殊的小玩意儿，你帮ta找到。你也可以送给ta一张你们俩甜蜜的合影，这种举动往往会很感人的说。

3. Do the manly-man or girly-girl thing. Many men say ILY by washing their mate's car and filling it with gas. Taking your man to a game, concert, car show or movie that he really likes is a great way to show that you want to be there for him.

做一些很男人或很女人的事情。很多男人总是在给爱人洗车和加油的时候说“我爱你”，而姑娘们呢，则可以跟男朋友一起打游戏、听演唱会或者看车展，看电影，陪他做一些他喜欢的事情，好让他明白你想跟他在一起。

4. Help your partner heal a childhood hurt or loss. Perhaps the most powerful thing you can do is to just listen to his or her story about what happened and follow it up with a big hug.   

帮助你的爱人克服童年创伤。你可以做的也许就是静静的聆听，然后给ta一个大大的拥抱。

5. Show up at a business event as the loving spouse. Staying in a supportive role and praising your mate's efforts to everyone you talk to will make your partner feel uplifted and loved.

夸赞对方的事业。支持ta，不遗余力的向每个人都夸赞ta,会让ta有快乐和被爱的感觉。

6. When you're watching TV, snuggle up close with the one you love. Sitting across the room from each other in separate chairs may feel comfortable to your body, but it isn't fulfilling to your heart.

依偎在一起看电视。分开坐身体可能会觉得舒服，但你的心呢？

7. Doing something for your mate that he or she hates to do speaks volumes. We all have things in our lives that we dislike doing and when your partner gets the spider out of the bathtub or makes a midnight run so the kids can have milk in the morning, it really says ILY.

为ta做ta不喜欢的事情，胜过千言万语。在生活中我们总有自己不喜欢的事情，而当你爱人帮你把浴缸中的蜘蛛收拾掉，或者在晚上给孩子准备第二天早晨的牛奶，其实就已经是在表达爱你了。

8. Being extra considerate on a daily basis works wonders. Saying "please" and "thank you," opening doors, helping your partner put on a coat, or putting a little love note in his or her pocket are a few of the little things that make a big difference.

日常生活中的体贴很重要。说“请”和“谢谢”，为ta开门，帮ta穿外套，或是在ta口袋里放一张爱的小便签，这些看起来都是很小的事情，但却意义重大。

也许在做完这些事情后，发现说出ILY会变得更容易呢。

毕竟，我们每个人都爱听这些话的嘛。

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